motherhood | kids | life lessons
Parenting is rough. Kids can be relentless. And they are expert button-pushers. But, parenting is also an incredible journey, very aptly labeled as the "toughest job you'll ever love."
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I'm a stay-at-home mom of two young kids, just trying to make a few good memories in the Twin Cities. I love my kids more than I can ever describe, but this incredible journey makes me laugh, makes me cry and sometimes makes me want to hide away in our bathroom. Especially during a global pandemic and the brutal Minnesota winters, the days are long and this journey can feel isolating.
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Writing keeps me in touch with myself and it provides a way to document this special time we have together--even if the recent pandemic gifted us with a bit too much togetherness.
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I was lucky to have a great childhood of my own and the wonderful way I was raised informs how I raise my own kids. But I lost my parents--my mom when I was 23 and my dad when I was 35--and that loss is still felt in some way each day, sometimes deeply. Moments of joy that I experience with my kids can be quickly followed by fleeting moments of sadness as I realize I cannot share them. It's something I struggle with and, most likely, always will.
So writing also offers a way to reflect on my own feelings and create a way for my children's grandparents to come alive for them, never to be forgotten.
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As my children grow and evolve and slowly develop into the unique and exquisitely wonderful people they are, I hope I do right by them. Though this job is tough, they amaze me every day. Each of our parenting journeys are unique, but perhaps I can share a small bit of inspiration to help you on your own. We all travel our own path, but it's nice to have some company along the way.